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Finding Freedom: My Journey with Alcohol
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Finding Freedom: My Journey with Alcohol alcoholfree alcoholism ashamed cancer freedom hope positivity sober stigma this naked mind Aug 09, 2024

The story of my relationship with alcohol starts long before I took my first drink. Growing up, alcohol was a constant presence in my life. I grew up on a very small farm, the oldest of three children...

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The Alcohol-Stress Myth: Unpacking the Science Behind Your Evening Drink
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The Alcohol-Stress Myth: Unpacking the Science Behind Your Evening Drink alcohol alcohol advice alcohol dependence alcohol free alcoholism anxiety myths about booze stress stress management worry Aug 08, 2024

In this blog post, I want to explore one of the most deeply ingrained beliefs in our culture: the idea that alcohol helps us unwind and de-stress. While this notion is widespread, the reality of how a...

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The Burden of Shame alcohol alcohol advice alcohol dependence alcohol free alcoholic alcoholism alcoholism stigma anxiety ashamed control alcohol control drinking cut back on drinking drinking alone drinking at work drinking every day drinking too much guilt guilty help control drinking moderating drinking problem drinking shame stress Aug 16, 2023

The Burden of Shame

Shame is a hugely toxic emotion, perhaps the most toxic and harmful of all. It involves self-loathing, where we hate ourselves for who we are, rather than for something we have do...

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Enjoy alcohol responsibly (& other useless advice) alcohol alcohol advice alcohol change uk alcohol charter alcohol dependence alcohol legislation alcoholism control drinking cut back on drinking drink aware moderating drinking portman group Mar 30, 2023

Have you ever noticed the advice on booze bottles to ‘enjoy alcohol in moderation’ or ‘enjoy responsibly’? Enjoy? Well, that is an unhelpful choice of verb! In what universe is it helpful to remind th...

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Bonding over a beer - alcohol in the workplace alcohol alcohol dependence alcoholic alcoholic assessment alcoholism alcoholism stigma beer bonding booze control alcohol control drinking cut back on drinking drinking too much help control drinking moderating drinking normal drinking office party problem drinking scared about drinking workplace drinking worried about drinking Jul 19, 2022

Bonding over a beer – alcohol in the workplace

 

Booze has been centre-stage in the shenanigans in Downing St in the last couple of years. Bottle-laden tables at ‘work events’ in the garden; juniors...

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Why can't I drink alcohol 'normally'? alcohol alcohol dependence alcoholic alcoholic assessment alcoholism alcoholism stigma control alcohol control drinking cut back on drinking drinking alone drinking every day drinking too much help control drinking lockdown drinking moderating drinking normal drinking pandemic drinking problem drinking scared about drinking Jun 10, 2022

Why can’t I drink alcohol ‘normally’?

 

When I am coaching people, they will often tell me that their objective is to be able to drink ‘normally’.

  

What is normal drinking? Is there any such th...

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Was my lockdown drinking normal? alcohol alcohol dependence alcoholic alcoholic assessment alcoholism alcoholism stigma control alcohol control drinking cut back on drinking drinking every day help control drinking lockdown drinking moderating drinking pandemic drinking scared about drinking worried about drinking Apr 20, 2022

 

 “My drinking increased during the pandemic, and I am struggling to get it back under control”

In the two years since Covid turned our world upside down, I have coached so many people whose drinki...

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Am I an alcoholic? Sharing my journey from fear and worry to happiness and freedom alcohol alcohol dependence alcoholic alcoholic assessment alcoholism alcoholism stigma control drinking cut back on drinking drinking every day drinking too much help control drinking moderating drinking scared about drinking worried about drinking Mar 16, 2022

 Recognizing alcohol is a problem

“Am I an alcoholic”? Oh my God, I googled that so many times. Of course, part of me was hoping that Dr Google would tell me I had nothing to worry about, but the ver...

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