THE BLOG
The story of my relationship with alcohol starts long before I took my first drink. Growing up, alcohol was a constant presence in my life. I grew up on a very small farm, the oldest of three...
In this blog post, I want to explore one of the most deeply ingrained beliefs in our culture: the idea that alcohol helps us unwind and de-stress. While this notion is widespread, the reality of...
The Burden of Shame
Shame is a hugely toxic emotion, perhaps the most toxic and harmful of all. It involves self-loathing, where we hate ourselves for who we are, rather than for something we have...
Have you ever noticed the advice on booze bottles to ‘enjoy alcohol in moderation’ or ‘enjoy responsibly’? Enjoy? Well, that is an unhelpful choice of verb! In what universe...
Which came first, the chicken or the egg? It’s an age-old conundrum, a question to which there is no clear answer. But it is more clear cut when it comes to anxiety / depression and drinking...
Summary dismissal is often the result when employees go to employers about alcohol dependence
Imagine you were in a serious relationship, both of you saying that you were there for each other and...
Bonding over a beer – alcohol in the workplace
Booze has been centre-stage in the shenanigans in Downing St in the last couple of years. Bottle-laden tables at ‘work...
Why can’t I drink alcohol ‘normally’?
When I am coaching people, they will often tell me that their objective is to be able to drink ‘normally’.
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“My drinking increased during the pandemic, and I am struggling to get it back under control”
In the two years since Covid turned our world upside down, I have coached so...
Recognizing alcohol is a problem
“Am I an alcoholic”? Oh my God, I googled that so many times. Of course, part of me was hoping that Dr Google would tell me I had nothing to worry...
